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Nelson: 1978), pp.103-126.
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2. «Ø¥ß²§¶H(Developing a vision)
3. ¦¨¬°·RªººÞ¹D (Releasing the energy)
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doesn¡¦t meaningfully speak to it; most of my friends don¡¦t seem to really
care.¡¦ (p.147)
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afraid to be really known. I¡¦ve managed to get alone pretty well by wearing
masks. If I took them off, I fear I¡¦d be a burden to people a weight no one
would want to bear.¡¦ (p.148)
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disappointment ¡V it resurrects too many questions that I¡¦ve never really
resolved, questions mostly about my value, my sense of adequacy, and whether
I¡¦ll ever feel really good.¡¦ (p.148)
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than relief.¡¦
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regardless of the personal risks involved.¡¦ (p.148)
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