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God helps us become more like Christ
by doing three things:
1. he provides us a taste of Christ
delighting in us ¡V the essence of connecting
¡P Accepting who we are.
¡P Envisioning who we could be.
2.
he diligently searches within us for the good he has put
there ¡V an affirming exposure
¡P
Remaining calm when badness is visible.
¡P
Keeping confidence that goodness lies beneath.
3. he engagingly exposes what is bad and painful ¡V a disruptive exposure
¡P Claiming the special opportunities to reveal grace that the difficult content of our hearts provide.
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